New York City’s hot, hardcore CumUnion men’s sex parties are hosted by Cade/MilkChocolateNYC. Check this page regularly as it is often updated with new parties. Full details and directions for each party can be found further down the page or at


The NYCU parties are held at two venues.  You can always find us on the 4th Friday of every month at Paddles, a 5,000 sq. ft. play space located in Manhattan, which offers two play areas, slings as well as clothes check. We also host at least one party a month at Rainbow Playground, located just outside of Manhattan in Long Island City, which offers private rooms, a video lounge, a hardcore backroom and an oral glory hole room.

“Black Gear Fetish” Party

Friday, January 27th, 2017
Time: 9:00pm – 2:30am
Entry: $27 ($22 before 11pm w/ CumUnion Card)


250 W 26th St, Manhattan, NY 10001 (btwn 7th/8th Ave)

-BLACK DRESS CODE:  Wear BLACK jockstraps: undies, leather or get naked.

NY CumUnion “Hung Meat” Bash
Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
Time: 7:30pm – 1:00am
Entry: $22 (before 11pm for men in Jockstraps/Naked)
Entry: $27 (Men in Underwear)


250 W 26th St, Manhattan, NY 10001 (btwn 7th/8th Ave)

-Join 100+ men when we host this hot bi-monthly party.
-THE LESS YOU WEAR – THE LESS YOU PAY to get into this man event.
-Host Cade is giving $5 entry ​before 9pm to naked men that show 8+ ​inches of HUNG MEAT to his ​cocksuckers.​


Open Door: Friendly adult Gay men of all races/types, age 18 and over invited.  The New York edition of this hot international party attracts a hot mix of mature men/twinks, jocks/average joe’s, cubs/bears, blue collar types/leather men, dads/lads.  Men on our Private Men’s Membership List have priority admission.  Both men into hardcore play and guys into safer piggy action welcome!  Everyone’s party limits respected.  Dimly lit BACKROOM open all night for hardcore play and 2nd level Oral Fetish/Safe Play Zone reserved for men into safer piggy play the first two hours of each party.  Tons of condoms within reach @ every party!  Please read the NY party rules at the bottom of this page to make sure everyone has a fun, drama-free time at the party! Men admitted at each event agree to abide by all party rules. NO DRUGS/SMOKING/RUDE BEHAVIOR PERMITTED!

Private Party List: Email “CUMNYC” to [email protected] for future party invites. (Include your name to reserve/pick-up a FREE CumUnion Membership Card at an upcoming party).  CumUnion Cardholders receive discounted admission during the first one or two hours of each party.

Future Parties: 4th Friday of every month at Paddles (plus various other dates)

NYCU Venues:

250 W 26th St, Manhattan, NY 10001
(btwn 7th/8th Ave.)

Paddles Adult Fetish Club

DIRECTIONS: Paddles is located in the Chelsea area of Manhattan, near the corner of W 26th Street, between 7th & 8th Ave. Enter from outside through the door on the right marked “Club 250” below the blue ‘West Chelsea Veterinary’ sign. Once inside, walk down the hall, take the stairs down one level and you will see our door guy.  By subway, take E or A train to 23rd St, use 25th St exit and then walk 1 block to West 26th.


3506 Northern Blvd, Long Island City, Queens, NY 11101

DIRECTIONS: Rainbow House Playground is located in Astoria, Queens just right outside of Manhattan. You can take the R/M train and get off at 36th St or E/F line when they run local, that will put you immediately by the door on the same side of the street. Or take the N/Q train to 39th St and just walk up Northern Blvd towards 35th St. Look for the glass door entrance to the left of the red neon “Truck Signs”; take the stairs up one level and follow signs to Rainbow Playground, which will be on your right.




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