Our mission is to provide a PRO-CHOICE, judgement-free environment for gay and bi-sexual men to meet where each individual can feel comfortable enough to act without fear of rejection or humiliation.  By providing such an environment, we hope to get guys off of their computers, cell phones and tablets (the normal means of “gay cruising” these days) and bring them together, in person, for some fun.  As a pro-choice party, we encourage our members and guests to communicate openly and honestly with their sexual partners about their sero-status thus allowing each individual to make their own decisions regarding what sexual behaviors are acceptable for themselves, what sexual activities they wish to participate in, and what actions they wish to take to protect themselves from HIV and other STDs.  At CumUnion, all men can fuck equally!


CumUnion is an International Sex party open to gay and bi-sexual men. We started as a small sex party after the 2010 Dore Alley Street Fair in San Francisco.  The success of the first party spawned the second,  held two months later following Folsom Street Fair.  Due to the overwhelming popularity of these two events we began to have the party on a regular basis. It wasn’t long before word spread and guys started to request that a CumUnion party be held in their city.  We now host more than 30 monthly parties spanning 23 cities and 3 countries around the world. A local event for a couple hundred men, has turned into an international event for a couple thousand.

What makes CumUnion unique is that we offer a judgement-free environment for men to meet and enjoy themselves. CumUnion prides itself on being a PRO-CHOICE party where individuals can decide for themselves what sexual behaviors and activities are appropriate for them.  Based on that, they can take the necessary measures to protect themselves from HIV and other sexual diseases. Also, our parties always have a great vibe and lots of hot men who are into the same things you are.

  We always look for the most cooperative venue to host a CumUnion party. Our parties are held at bath houses, saunas, sex clubs, gay hotels and resorts, and some private local spaces.  There will always be some form of a clothes check available for guests and many of our venues also offer refreshments.  If you are interested in hosting a CumUnion party at your venue visit the “Contact” page for how to reach us.





Q: Do you have to be a member of BBRTS or CumHunt to come to the party?

A: No, but we do encourage you to join. You can find other like minded men in your area and members say it’s like meeting with friends if you are on the sites.


Q: Is there a Clothes check or Lockers available?

A: Yes, all of our venues will have some form of a clothes check or Locker rental available for your clothes and/or bags.


Q: The party I’m attending is held at a hotel/resort.  Is there a special CumUnion discount hotel rate? Do I have to rent a room to attend?

A: We work with our hotel/resort venues to offer the best possible rates during our events.  It is not required that you rent a room to attend these parties, our hotel/resort venues all offer some sort of Day Pass with which you can attend the party. For rates, reservations and more info on getting a Day Pass, please contact the hotel/resort directly.


Q: What is your policy on alcohol and drugs?

A: Many of our venues do no allow alcohol while some of our venues offer fully licensed bars. Drugs are never allowed at any of our parties.  CumUnion members are expected to follow the drug/alcohol policy set forth by the venue.


Q: Are woman allowed to go?

A: No. Our parties are only for male-identifying biological men.


Q: Are there Lube and Condoms available?

A: Yes, our parties are stocked with lube and condoms.


Q: Are your parties filmed?

A: Our parties are never filmed.  If filming is happening at a venue while a CumUnion party is going on, the filming area will be closed off. Party guests do not have to worry about being filmed, not even in the background.  Only models who have been previously cast will be filmed. Your privacy is our highest priority.


Q: Can I bring my phone?

A: Each venue has their own individual policy on cell phones.  We ask that you please check your phone in at clothes check or leave it in your locker. If you need to make a call, take it outside the play area of the venue. Disruptive members may be asked to leave.