February 22, 2021

A Message from the Host:

Right now we are taking baby steps toward returning to a full schedule of events. We plan to host a Friday, Saturday and Sunday event for men on our list. ONLY advance ticket holders, and men on the RSVP List, will be admitted.  All parties will have reduced hours to abide by New York City mandates, and reduced capacity to allow space for social distancing.


I understand that many on my list will decide to wait until later in 2021 to attend an in person event. I will continue to monitor things to see if I will be able to host additional events. My goal is to host hot, safe, events for Black, Latin, Asian, White, MiXXXed MEN of all flavas to meet, mingle and get off in a safe, welcoming environment.

Stay safe!

– Cade



Paddles Fetish Club continues to be temporarily closed. The venue will reopen when New York City officials allow clubs in the city to reopen and host indoor events.


The Rainbow Private Men’s Group space reopened February 2021 to host private events. Face mask and ID are be required to enter. Attendance will be limited to allow space for social distancing. EVERYONE must add their name to the RSVP List, or buy an advance ticket, to attend an event.  Also, everyone must abide by all of party safety rules.

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About NYC CumUnion:

Friendly adult Gay men of all races and types, ages 18 and over, invited.  The New York City edition of this hot international party attracts a hot mix of mature men/twinks, jocks/average joe’s, cubs/bears, blue collar types/leather men, dads/lads.  Men on our Private Men’s Membership List have priority admission.  Both men into hardcore play and guys into safer piggy action welcome!  Everyone’s party limits respected.  Dimly lit BACKROOM open all night for hardcore play and 2nd level Oral Fetish/Safe Play Zone reserved for men into safer piggy play the first two hours of each party.  Tons of condoms within reach @ every party!  

Private Party List:

Visit and click the “Join our Email List” link to be added to our promoter’s private party list and receive invites to future events. Include your name to reserve/pick-up a FREE CumUnion Membership Card at an upcoming party.  CumUnion Cardholders enjoy discounted entry during the opening hours of each party.


250 W 26th St, Manhattan, NY 10001

Paddles Adult Fetish Club

DIRECTIONS: Paddles is located in the Chelsea area of Manhattan, near the corner of W 26th Street, between 7th & 8th Ave. Enter from outside through the door on the right marked “Club 250” below the blue ‘West Chelsea Veterinary’ sign. Once inside, walk down the hall, take the stairs down one level and you will see our door guy.  By subway, take E or A train to 23rd St, use 25th St exit and then walk 1 block to West 26th.

MilkChocolateNYC Men’s Party Rules:

Please read the NYC party rules below to make sure everyone has a fun, drama-free time at the party! Men admitted at each event agree to abide by all party rules. NO DRUGS/SMOKING/RUDE BEHAVIOR/CELL PHONES PERMITTED! Everyone attending the New York City CumUnion Parties should have their ID with them incase of a medical emergency.

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Local Health Resources & Testing Info:

The David Geffen Center for HIV Prevention and Health Education
224 West 29th Street, New York, NY, 10001
CLICK HERE for Walk-In Clinic Hours
Call 212-367-1100 to schedule an appointment

Callen-Lorde Community Health Center
356 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011
STI testing available Saturdays from 8:30am – 3:15pm. (Walk-In ONLY!)
Call (212) 271-7200 if you’d like to schedule a Monday – Friday appointment.

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